Committal
Born in Wilmington, NC on July 28, 1945 to Raymond Theodore Williams and Lillian Denton Williams, it’s no surprise that she had a life-long affinity for the Atlantic Ocean and the beautiful beaches of the Carolinas. Pat died peacefully on Thursday afternoon, August 17, 2023 at home in her bed surrounded by her loving family after years of declining health due to pulmonary fibrosis.
She was raised and baptized at Hopewell Baptist Church in her youth and was sustained by her faith in Christ; particularly during the last few years of poor health and most recently,
confinement at home.
A graduate of Salem High School, she also attended Western Piedmont Community College. Pat spent the majority of her career working “hands on” with both mentally and physically disadvantaged children at the Riddle Center and then a group home affiliated with Broughton Hospital in Morganton called “Kids Can Make It”. She also worked for two years at the O’Berry Center in Goldsboro, NC in the same capacity. In her later working years, Pat shifted from direct care to clerical office support work at Lifegains, Inc. and lastly, Broughton Hospital school until she retired.
Upon retirement, she became the consummate “Nannie” to her grandchildren and great- grandchildren, whom she adored with all her heart and soul, spending most of her days and many nights frolicking, reading and watching movies with them.
Along with her parents, Pat was predeceased by her brother Raymond Landres Williams, father of her children, Bennie Archie Buff, and a cherished grandson, Benjamin Mark Buff.
Both of her children, son Mark Buff (Katherina Johnson) and daughter, Sharlene Hipple (John), of Morganton, are left to cherish her memory along with sisters Inez Williams and Judy Hager, of Morganton and Harrisburg, respectively; and sister-in-law, Beverly Garrison Williams of Morganton. Her best friend and companion for over 30 years, Judy Jackson Hensley (JuJu), was also her primary caregiver in her time of need.
Her grandchildren include Will and Sam Buff; Makenna Clark; Ryan Cook (Brooke Hodges); Tiffany Hipple (Kristie); Hunter, Kevin (Elizabeth) and Thomas McCombs.
Great-grandchildren include Tyler Hodges (Brittany), Allie Speas, Jaden Mullins, Greyson Bonfield, Ava Mullins, Harper Cook, Abbi McCombs, twins Kayden and Kolten Hipple, James Cook, Cora McCombs and twins River and Ridge Cook. The newest addition to the family and sole great-great grandchild to Pat is Hadley Grace Hodges. Pat also cherished her many nieces and nephews, cousins, and a multitude of friends.
The family will receive friends from 5 to 6 p.m., Friday, September 8, 2023 at Sossoman Funeral Home. The celebration of Patsy’s life will follow at 6 p.m. in the Colonial Chapel of the funeral home with Revs. Allison Benfield and Dana McKim officiating.
The family would also like to thank the VIA Health Partners Hospice team for their care and support of Pat during the past few weeks. Any contributions to Hospice, Options, Inc. or any non-profit of your choice in memory of Pat would be pleasing to her and the family.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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I rarely go online, but today I did and learned this very sad news. I worked with her (from a distance) and she was such a huge support system for me for many, many years. We remained in contact through Facebook, sharing stories & pictures of our children & grandchildren. She was so kind & so incredibly proud of her family. Always in my heart sweet Pat.
I am so sorry for the loss
It’s hard to lose a friend of some 30 years. It saddens me greatly to hear of your mother’s passing. She was a very special lady who I considered a close friend for over 30 years. My heart goes out to all of her family and those close to her that are just like family. Rest in peace Patsy Mae until we meet again.
We love and miss you so very much.
I am so sorry to hear of Patsy's passing. I only found out today. She was always like a sister to me just like Judy and Inez. My deepest condolences to all of the family. I pray that God will comfort and fill you all with his love and grace. All my love to the family. Rest in peace my sweet Patsy!
Always cherish the wonderful memories of you and your mother. Thoughts and prayers continue for you and your family Mark. Sorry for your loss. Love you brother.
So sorry for you loss. Pat and her sisters have always been so good to my mother. Prayers for comfort in this difficult time. Love to you all.
RIP Pat. You were a bright light in so many people's lives. Your family is a beautiful legacy. One I know you were so proud of . God Bless . Heaven has gained a beautiful Angel .
As I write to you with my condolences, my head is filled with images of Ms. Pat and the joy she brought to all of us who were lucky enough to know and love her. She was a truly special person, and we are all deeply sorry for your loss.