Judy Smith Carswell went home to be with her heavenly father on Friday, January 13, 2023 at the age of 74 after a courageous battle with stomach cancer.
She was born in Burke County on April 3, 1948 to the late Clyde William Smith and Mildred Ross Smith. She was a life-long member of Burkemont Baptist Church and enjoyed helping in the kitchen or anywhere she could. She loved the Lord with all her heart and thanked him daily for all his blessings. She was a likeable, loving, funny and giving person who saw the best in everyone.
Judy graduated from Salem High School in 1966, Western Piedmont Community College and Gardner Webb College with a Bachelor's Degree in Business Administration. She worked at Western Piedmont Community College for 22 years and retired from J Iverson Riddle Developmental Center as Director of Purchasing. She enjoyed working at the voting sites for the Board of Elections and delivering meals for the Meals on Wheels Program. She was also a previous member of the Pilot Club of Morganton.
She was a natural athlete and played basketball at Salem High School where she was all conference, all tourney, Burke County MVP and voted senior class Most Athletic. After high school she continued to play sports and excelled in everything she played especially her favorites tennis and golf. When tennis became popular, she and her sister started playing and joined the previous Burke Tennis Club. She became a top-notch player and won many tournaments in different categories. When she felt like she was aging out of tennis and other sports, she said she needed to take up an old man's sport so she took up golf at age 40 and developed into a great golfer. She loved playing golf at Mimosa Hills where she served on the Board and was Club Champion 11 times. At one time she held the course record at 6 under par. Many women golfers across North and South Carolina knew her from playing in many tournaments and by serving on the Board of the NC Women's Golf association, where she was tournament chairman twice for the NC State Amateur Championship at Mimosa Hills GC, Board of the NC Senior Women's Golf Association and past President of the Western Golf League. Some of her most enjoyable times were spent on the tennis court or golf course with her friends who she loved dearly. Coach Roy Waters once introduced her as one of the best athletes in Burke County, if not the best.
Her love of sports never competed with the love she had for her family and friends especially the loves of her life, husband Kelly, who shared their lives for over 56 years; nieces Sarah and Anna Tucker, who she considered her children; and her late sister Peggy. Family get-togethers were some of her favorite times and being a good cook she always provided her favorite dishes including the best turkey dressing and chicken and dumplings. Being an outdoors person, she liked flowers and strived to have a pretty yard so over the years you could always see her planting flowers, weeding, trimming bushes and using her little chain saw trimming trees or anything that needed to be done. She was very talented and could do most anything. Christmas was her favorite Holiday and over the years people enjoyed riding by to see a massive yard full of Christmas decorations. Being a perfectionist, she took great pride in making sure everything was placed just right which meant little to no help was allowed.
The family would like to thank all her family and friends who helped get her through this tough time especially her childhood life-long friend Annie Alford and Becky Dale who took her to appointments.
Those left to cherish her memory include her husband, Kelly; nieces, Anna Tucker, Sarah Tucker, Briana Shelton (Joel), Wendy Johnson, Peggy Younce (Brian), and Amy Buchanan (Adam); nephew, Scott Carswell, brothers-in-law, Edward Preston Tucker, Jr., Wayne Carswell, Ralph Carswell, and Bill Williams; and sister-in-law, Rose Johnson.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her sister, Peggy Tucker; sister-in-law, Arlean Williams; and brothers-in-law, James Johnson and Alton Carol Carswell.
The family will receive friends from 3 to 4 p.m., Saturday, January 21, 2023 at Burkemont Baptist Church. The funeral will be held at 4 p.m. in the church with Rev. Dr. Eddy Bunton officiating. Burial will follow in the church cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Burkemont Baptist Church, 4668 Burkemont Road, Morganton, NC 28655.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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Judy will be missed by her family and friends. Condolences to Kelly, Anna and Sarah. She is in a much better place with no pain or discomfort. Love you Judy!! I will miss you!!
Well You Are Free Now From All Your Pain.I Hope And Pray Kelly Will Be Alright Without You He Will Have To Learn How To Do I Know. But He Has Family And Friends To Help Him .So Sorry You Had To Face So Much At Your Last Days Here On Earth. Cancer Is Bad Especially When They Don't Find It Until It Has Taking Over And Then You Broke Your Hip And Had To Have Surgery Had To Take Blood And Magnesium So You Could Have Surgery Then You Got COVID That Was Bad Your Body Couldn't Take Anymore So God Said It Time.
My prayers and condolences to the family.
Family and friends, What a very nice write-up of Judy's many accomplishments. As a fellow tennis player I always enjoyed her competitive spirit and fun ways. She was just a joy to be around. Heaven has gained a saint. May our loving Lord wrap His arms around those of you going through the grieving process. Wayne and Leslie Giese