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James Marcus “Marc” Sholar passed on Saturday June 22, 2024 just nine days after a terminal cancer diagnosis. Marc was born in Asheboro, North Carolina on October 22, 1964 to Edsel W. Sholar and Peggy Y. Sholar. He graduated from Asheboro High School in 1983 and entered the Merchant Marines for a stint before attending High Point University, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Home Furnishings. He had a 30-year career as a furniture manufacturer’s sales rep for both Stanley Furniture and Universal Furniture.
On December 30, 1994, Marc married the love of his life, Stacey Byrd Sholar, whom he was with for 30 years. They enjoyed traveling together, including treasured trips to New York City, Las Vegas, Santa Barbara, and countless weekends seeing their children. After a brief period in Tampa, Florida they settled in Morganton, North Carolina where they raised two children, Sarah and Ben. There was nothing Marc was more proud of than his family, which he told them until he was no longer able.
Marc was an incredibly kind, thoughtful, and charismatic individual. He was a fierce protector of his family and friends, and always made sure to tell people how much he loved them. He was the first to laminate a photo of you in the newspaper and leave it in your mailbox. He was a friendly face to all, so much so that his children often chastised him for talking to too many people after Sunday morning service at First Baptist Church of Morganton. He found lots of joy on the golf course and attending Panther’s games with his son, going to concerts with his daughter, and grilling burgers and dancing in the kitchen on Saturday nights with his wife.
Marc is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Stacey Byrd Sholar, of nearly 30 years, as well as his two adoring children, Sarah Sholar Rickerman (Josh) and Ben Sholar, dear family friends, Keith and Karen Breedlove, and several nieces, nephews, and cousins whom he loved dearly. He is preceded in death by his mother, Peggy Y. Sholar, father, Edsel W. Sholar, and brother, Gregory Y. Sholar.
The family thanks Dr. Deborah Davis and Dr. Marty Gessner for their endless support during his sickness. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Marc’s memory to First Baptist Church of Morganton or the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation.
A Celebration of Marc’s Life will be held at 2pm, Friday, June 28, 2024, at First Baptist Church Morganton with the Rev. Dr. Thomas A. Bland Jr. officiating. The family will greet friends following the service.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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Marc always called me the Smiling Credit Manager, but he was a person who brought that smile every time we talked. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. My prayers for your family for peace, comfort and a sense of God's presence during this time and those to come. I know he had a deep and abiding trust in the Lord. I look forward to seeing his smile again in the presence of the Lord.
Stacey and Family, Sending you loving thoughts of support during this time of devastating loss. Marc was a true southern gentleman, very kind, always helpful... He will be missed by all who knew him. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Sally Simerson
Marc always seemed to be a part of my life. When I was growing up he was good friends with my uncle Chris and was always over at my grandmother’s house. We used to call him Chewy because he could sound like Chewbacca from Star Wars. When I went to HPU I saw him there several times as he was also earning his degree and we would always catch up. After college I started in the furniture industry where I also got to see him and catch up. The last place I saw him was at Tom’s Place for breakfast one morning in High Point. He was always smiling and just a genuine great guy that will be missed by all that knew him. I always enjoyed our time. Thoughts and prayers to his family. Godspeed Marc!!
I’ve done a lot of reflecting these past two weeks, and I realize how good Mark was to me my entire life. We were always friends, but we reconnected back in 2008. Since then, we tailgated with Ben and my son Will at dozens of Panthers’ games. I can see you right now, watching Andy Griffith with Pops and Greg while Mama York and Peg were cooking fresh vegetables out of the garden. The last day I saw you, we talked about those vegetables, and I bet they’re even better in Heaven. I love you, brother. To Stacey, Sarah, Ben, and Josh, you all are in my prayers.
My deepest condolences to the family. Marc was a wonderful Christian Man. So full of Integrity!! Angie and I have you in our thoughts and prayers
I had the pleasure of working with Mark at Tyson Furniture for many years. I will always remember his great personality, smile and good- looking attire. Sending lots of love and prayers to his family !
My deepest sympathies to Marc's family during this difficult time. I enjoyed running into Marc at Furnitureland South. He always took the time to speak to me and ask me how my day was. Superb guy and so helpful and nice. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Courtney Plunkett
Marc was a positive, friendly, kind, helpful person. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. My condolences to his family, my G-- hold you in the shelter of his arms in your time of grief to comfort you in your loss. -Inga
I just wanted to give my deepest condolences! I had the opportunity of knowing Marc from Furnitureland South. And He was so kind every time I spoke with him!
I met Marc at Furnitureland South. He was always a pleasure to speak with. There was never a time he would pass me with out asking about my family. He was a kind sincere soul. Sending love , prayers and condolences to you all! -Cindy Basel