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James Marcus “Marc” Sholar passed on Saturday June 22, 2024 just nine days after a terminal cancer diagnosis. Marc was born in Asheboro, North Carolina on October 22, 1964 to Edsel W. Sholar and Peggy Y. Sholar. He graduated from Asheboro High School in 1983 and entered the Merchant Marines for a stint before attending High Point University, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Home Furnishings. He had a 30-year career as a furniture manufacturer’s sales rep for both Stanley Furniture and Universal Furniture.
On December 30, 1994, Marc married the love of his life, Stacey Byrd Sholar, whom he was with for 30 years. They enjoyed traveling together, including treasured trips to New York City, Las Vegas, Santa Barbara, and countless weekends seeing their children. After a brief period in Tampa, Florida they settled in Morganton, North Carolina where they raised two children, Sarah and Ben. There was nothing Marc was more proud of than his family, which he told them until he was no longer able.
Marc was an incredibly kind, thoughtful, and charismatic individual. He was a fierce protector of his family and friends, and always made sure to tell people how much he loved them. He was the first to laminate a photo of you in the newspaper and leave it in your mailbox. He was a friendly face to all, so much so that his children often chastised him for talking to too many people after Sunday morning service at First Baptist Church of Morganton. He found lots of joy on the golf course and attending Panther’s games with his son, going to concerts with his daughter, and grilling burgers and dancing in the kitchen on Saturday nights with his wife.
Marc is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Stacey Byrd Sholar, of nearly 30 years, as well as his two adoring children, Sarah Sholar Rickerman (Josh) and Ben Sholar, dear family friends, Keith and Karen Breedlove, and several nieces, nephews, and cousins whom he loved dearly. He is preceded in death by his mother, Peggy Y. Sholar, father, Edsel W. Sholar, and brother, Gregory Y. Sholar.
The family thanks Dr. Deborah Davis and Dr. Marty Gessner for their endless support during his sickness. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Marc’s memory to First Baptist Church of Morganton or the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation.
A Celebration of Marc’s Life will be held at 2pm, Friday, June 28, 2024, at First Baptist Church Morganton with the Rev. Dr. Thomas A. Bland Jr. officiating. The family will greet friends following the service.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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To the family of Marc Sholar he was an awesome person to have as a friend and classmate. We had good times back in High School. The class of 83 is going to miss him dearly. Family stay strong and believe GOD only takes the best with him. Prayers for the family my friend. Rest easy Marc. Blue Comets forever.
Our deepest condolences for the premature loss of a wonderful father, husband, and person.
May GOD bless and watch over this beautiful family. I cherished Marc’s friendship and we will miss his presence. He was a fine example of how life is to be lived🙏🙏 Ben&LIBBA
This is so sad and shocking to hear.to hear. I am so sorry for the family to lose such an upstanding person at such a young age. I will miss our talks and I valued our friendship. Prayers for the family.
Robert and I are so saddened to learn of Marc's passing. We had just been talking about missing Marc and Stacey at church. Marc was very supportive and always willing to help in any way he could. Of course Stacey was always by his side. There will be a tremendous loss every time we gather for worship and look for Marc in the usual place he and Stacy sat. I always look at the congregation and try to see as many friendly faces as possible. I am happy Marc could share in the celebration for Sarah's wedding. Life, as we know it, is ever-changing. Our journeys have many turns and twists that can be overwhelming. We pray that God will help you as you continue with your journey. Please know all of you are in our hearts and prayers. Love, Robert and Becky Poteat
Holding your family close in prayer. Marc was one of the great ones!
So sorry to the Sholar Family for your tragic loss. My prayers are with all of you.
