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James Marcus “Marc” Sholar passed on Saturday June 22, 2024 just nine days after a terminal cancer diagnosis. Marc was born in Asheboro, North Carolina on October 22, 1964 to Edsel W. Sholar and Peggy Y. Sholar. He graduated from Asheboro High School in 1983 and entered the Merchant Marines for a stint before attending High Point University, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Home Furnishings. He had a 30-year career as a furniture manufacturer’s sales rep for both Stanley Furniture and Universal Furniture.
On December 30, 1994, Marc married the love of his life, Stacey Byrd Sholar, whom he was with for 30 years. They enjoyed traveling together, including treasured trips to New York City, Las Vegas, Santa Barbara, and countless weekends seeing their children. After a brief period in Tampa, Florida they settled in Morganton, North Carolina where they raised two children, Sarah and Ben. There was nothing Marc was more proud of than his family, which he told them until he was no longer able.
Marc was an incredibly kind, thoughtful, and charismatic individual. He was a fierce protector of his family and friends, and always made sure to tell people how much he loved them. He was the first to laminate a photo of you in the newspaper and leave it in your mailbox. He was a friendly face to all, so much so that his children often chastised him for talking to too many people after Sunday morning service at First Baptist Church of Morganton. He found lots of joy on the golf course and attending Panther’s games with his son, going to concerts with his daughter, and grilling burgers and dancing in the kitchen on Saturday nights with his wife.
Marc is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Stacey Byrd Sholar, of nearly 30 years, as well as his two adoring children, Sarah Sholar Rickerman (Josh) and Ben Sholar, dear family friends, Keith and Karen Breedlove, and several nieces, nephews, and cousins whom he loved dearly. He is preceded in death by his mother, Peggy Y. Sholar, father, Edsel W. Sholar, and brother, Gregory Y. Sholar.
The family thanks Dr. Deborah Davis and Dr. Marty Gessner for their endless support during his sickness. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Marc’s memory to First Baptist Church of Morganton or the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation.
A Celebration of Marc’s Life will be held at 2pm, Friday, June 28, 2024, at First Baptist Church Morganton with the Rev. Dr. Thomas A. Bland Jr. officiating. The family will greet friends following the service.
Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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Marc was a special person I did electrical work for him and Stacey back when I first started my business. I hadn't seen him in awhile but every now and then I would bump into him here and there. He always had a true smile and a kind word to say to me. Rest easy my friend!
Stacey, Sarah, and Ben, we are sorry to hear of Marc’s passing. Though we had not seen you all in many years, we have a lot of fun memories of being friends when we lived in Morganton. Marc is a fine man and I say is because he is more alive now than he ever was, resting in the arms of Jesus. I know you already miss him and the coming days will be hard. Live your lives as Marc did—for each other, for others, and mostly for God. You are in our prayers, Rick, Lisa, Addison, and Tucker Whitten
I don't often use this term for many people but Marc was a true complete Gentleman.
So sorry to hear of Marks Passing. He was the most absolute best salesman that I had the pleasure working with in my business. Mark was always so upbeat every time I saw him. Perfect gentleman! Again so sorry to hear the sad news. Bob Caldwell
Great tribute to a fine man. Marc always carried a smile. Prayers for peace, comfort and healing to his loving family. Ricky Dean Lingerfelt
Marc was one of my favorites in the business. We have been in the business since the 90’stogether . You just could not find a better person. Praying for you Stacy , Sarah and Ben and please know he talked about you three all the time in the showroom and glowed when he did .
The kindest and most soulful man you could meet. He always had a smile and a kind word. We are less for his passing. Love and Prayers to his family.